For most people, if you look at a portion of their life that they enjoyed most it would be their vacations. Many of us live for the next vacation, it can’t come soon enough. Believe it or not, a good percentage of Americans can’t seem to find the time or have the means to take vacations. Because it’s a time we enjoy most it seems it should be a priority and if you can’t find the means at least you could take a day trip to enjoy nature and life.
Nearly two years ago I had a portion of the book I’ve been writing for years published in an international literary magazine called AOIS21 Media. Since then the road is like this. I have the bulk of the manuscript ready but every few days I work on it refining, changing, rearranging to make it ready to present to a publisher. I’ve also spent countless hours reading and listening to e-book publishers and speaking with some to get their advice on publishing. An arduous task at best.
Essentially this work of the heart has taken a portion of my life. I’m amazed by authors like James Patterson, one of my favorites, that releases books every couple months it seems. I know he has a template or a formula which he starts from so it’s not as difficult as a brand new creation.
My wife and I are very fond of vacations though we get so tied up in life that there are way too many years when we skipped a vacation. At least when we didn’t find time for an actual vacation we’ve at least taken a getaway weekend to regain our sanity and remember how to breathe. That’s the key, remember how to breathe its an essential ingredient for living.
When I think of opaque I think of heavy frosted or tinted windows that conceal what’s behind the window. In Arizona with the bright scorching summers heavy tinted windows are allowed in fact it’s rare to find vehicles without tinted windows. For locals, it’s a clue that the people without tinting are not from around here.
Images also come to mind of blinds in windows that completely block out the sun and thereby the heat. Window shutters are quite common with homebuilders in the southwest to keep the heat out of the home. In addition, heavier than normal sunscreens on homes windows and doors are also commonplace.
But for me personally opaque draws to mind the paint that is put on wood cabinets which are very popular today. From an early background in woodworking, I feel it’s a crime to hide the beautiful woodgrain with white, black or even gray paint. Painting over wood is nothing new, it’s been done for centuries. The difference is there’s a “paint grade wood” that’s recommended for this application (which for panels and molding is MDF fiberboard) but the price has driven many manufacturers to use other beautiful grain woods for the cabinets.
Pine is a softwood but it can be beautiful when stained, used a lot in the past but today the most common material is poplar, a hardwood that doesn’t dent as easy which can reveal the woodgrain. Another wood species that’s painted is alder. Poplar doesn’t stain up as well as alder, in fact, I consider alder the chameleon wood because it can stain up to look like cherry or maple.
In Arizona, the alder sales are higher than some other parts of the country because of its western regional availability. My feelings are wood has nothing to hide. Paint is a coverup. Whitewashing or not to whitewash it’s your call, that’s my two cents.
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With Easter fast approaching many of us are reminded of one of the earliest denials in history. That would be after Jesus was arrested and the soldiers asked Peter if he knew Christ? He proceeded to deny Jesus not once but three times before the rooster crew; which was prophesied by him who was betrayed. And Christ called Peter the “rock” him whom he would build his church upon. Now that’s the kind of confidence Jesus had that Peter would overcome the shame of his betrayal.
Denial is an everyday thing but being in denial can be a state of mind or refusal to accept something that you may not want to. So many people go through life not realizing that they may be in denial of something unless someone else points it out. The proverbial we’re blind to seeing that something in ourselves.
I think we all are looking to make this a better world. So many of us quick to see the “error in another’s ways” but slow to see it in ourselves. Regardless of where you stand the denial that you may harbor pales in comparison to Peter’s and look how far he went after he came to terms with his error. To a bright future, your walk of life; your brother in arms.
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Contrary to anything you may have ever heard there isn’t a magic elixir for life. Life happens although we can direct our course daily by setting goals and steering our lifeboat on a course we desire. A great many people say they are defined by their livelihood. It’s true a good part of one’s life is committed to their vocation. For example, if you are a doctor not only did you spend extra time with your education and in most people’s eyes that’s how you’re viewed.
There may not be a formula for life but there is a lot you can do if you plan accordingly. So often young people hesitate sometimes for years in deciding what they want to do with their life and suddenly they find themselves in a career that they actually detest. This is not as uncommon as one would think. Check out the “Escalator of life” video.
In past generations a young man didn’t have to think twice about what he was going to do, it was predetermined by his parents to carry on in the family business. Today you still find that sort of thing if your family livelihood was fishing or farming for example but so many others will be charting their course in uncharted waters.
I have a widely varied background which is why I’ve been writing a book on helping others find out they were meant to do. Stay tuned, I will have further details as the process nears completion. We’ll help you to find your purpose, your reason and perhaps hidden desire for living.
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It’s amazing how most everything has a pattern to it. You can look at clouds and how they form a pattern to look like this or that which we recognize. Nature has patterns all around us that we marvel at every time we stop and think about it. It’s equally amazing how we find all these patterns around us to be so pleasing to the eye. That’s a compelling argument for creationists that God created these things and they were good.
Digging deeper when scientists look at our genes they see the pattern in our DNA. Again, something amazing in itself. Patterns aren’t limited to mother nature. I’m looking at this beautiful knitted blanket that my mother made it’s always been a pleasing pattern that reminds me of her. Mankind has made its mark.
Patterns aren’t limited to physical objects they’re also prevalent in our speech, writing, and music of course. Observing patterns in some fields of interest are a full-time job. People seldom stop to take time to see the patterns in this or that, they don’t have time to “stop and smell the roses” and that’s sad. We rush through our hurried life trying to get here and there and miss all the beauty around us.
Do yourself a favor and stop and smell the roses or observe the way your kids are playing. It could be enlightening to you and can only be of help in those relationships with nature and the ones that we love.
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Years ago I used to listen to my favorite sports team live from Arizona. I heard all the fans cheering on their team and I thought I can’t image that many people down there j the desert. I thought how and why would they live there. It had to be hot, dry and awful in that arid climate without water.
Now after living here for over 20 years, I’ve learned to appreciate the desert. We may be in the middle of a 20-year drought but lately, we’ve been blessed with an unusual amount of rainfall. The desert has plenty of greenery, the only downside being we‘re going to have a bumper crop of tumbleweeds this summer. It’s amazing how those sagebrush grow every year and uproot travel with the wind coming to rest in a fence and sometimes the grille of your vehicle.
Every year people migrate to the southwest, some for vacation, like the snowbirds that are everywhere now. Others are told to move here in the arid climate for health reasons. Subsequently, the growth has presented new problems with not enough water to support the population. The primary source of water is the mighty Colorado river, its blessings of rainfall that renews our hope for tomorrow.
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Why is it that it’s so much easier to criticize than to compliment someone? We’ve learned since we were kids that others, especially bullies received praise for their critique of others. In essence, this has been engrained in us all most of our life because giving compliments required much more thought, work and quite simply we didn’t see the value. Depending on the type of criticism many have been hurtful remarks and only spread negativism on the person and or object in question.
Looking at the results of criticism versus compliments the tearing down of someone is typically destructive while compliments are uplifting with positive results building the person up. Why does it still continue once we reach adulthood? When you think about it one obvious reason is the poor example the media sets with all the negative press. You rarely see or read an uplifting human interest story.
Pessimism abounds while optimism seems only to be found in those individuals that understand it. A positive mental attitude is not only good for the soul it’s also contagious and makes the world a better place. Is it that hard to pay others a compliment? You really don’t have to go out of your way there are opportunities every day. Get on the positive train of thought you’ll be glad you did.
In the business world Zig Ziglar, Tony Robbins and many others capitalized on this concept and built empires. In the spiritual world, the thing that sets believers apart is they have hope. Sometimes hope is all we have. Pay a compliment someone today. Chances are you’ll receive a smile and thank you for your effort and you’ve made the world a better place.
On the Inauguration Day of the 45th President of the United States, a winter storm gripped most of the country. The storm spread from coast to coast and was present from the north to the south borders with travelers advisories in effect. Depending on what part of the country you live in exposure to the weather can be a little uncomfortable to extremely dangerous being exposed to the elements, snow and cold temperatures.
The national weather service has also said there are three storms sweeping across the nation back to back. Looking back at Washington D.C. the rain affected those attending the Inauguration but the depressing scene was all the violent demonstrators that smashed shops and cars only a mile away. At least 95 were arrested. By contrast, when the 44th president was sworn in there wasn’t a single infraction. Apparently, that’s the disposition of the haters as they did the same thing when their candidate of choice lost last November.
Adverse weather can affect one’s temperament. In this case, the demonstrators’ temperature of their temperament was already angry based on their actions. The new President took time out of his schedule to visit the Arlington Cemetary to lay a wreath on the “tomb of the unknown soldier”. Patriotism has been slipping away in America. Acts like this are not only admirable to US citizens and the military but other countries see a renewed Patriotic interest on display by our new President.
Eight years ago, those that voted for a new hope may not be the ones believing their hope is at hand but most of Americans do as evidenced by this past election. Before he was even close to taking office the President-Elect did a number of things to save American jobs and bolster the economy. That’s hope you can get behind, someone that takes an initiative to get it done. We need a leader, one that stands up to the corruption that has taken over Washington. So far, it looks like we have someone that America can get behind and earn the respect back on the world stage.
Keep warm and warm wishes to you from Arizona.
This week was a quest for my very life! No joke. Early last Friday my wife and I found ourselves about to give the largest of our rescued (December 2015 kittens) a necessary bath in the kitchen sink. In what seemed to be the longest minute of our lives we fought and struggled to soon see the sink bottom red with blood-our blood. Scotchy was a biting scratching machine every micro-second of that minute. At least we got all our blood washed out of his tail before we let him go.
After letting him go we gazed upon each other bewildered at what just happened. My wife received several bites and numerous scratches on both arms and hands, mine were confined to primarily my left appendage that appeared to be his “chew toy” for the moment. We both went to urgent care independently that day, I went early she went later. Over the weekend her wounds appeared to be healing while the one on my knuckles were not. By Monday morning I was in our doctors office on a different antibiotic and instructions to follow. That night she took me to the emergency room.
After a day in the hospital with an IV and little improvement I went into surgery. I was released late Thursday night and saw the hand specialist this morning again. It turns out that the bite went down to the tendon and joint where no amount of antibiotics would be able to reach. Infections can be life threatening. I know after witnessing my Mother and my wife both having close calls with death from tiny infections and now firsthand from mine.
The moral of the story if you will is a few things: Never grab a cat by the tail as Buck Owens said in “I’ve got a tiger by the tail” I won’t be much when you get through with me. Don’t assume a feral cat will respond like a domestic one. Take precautions and remember that water is the greatest fear of most cats.
I was deep in prayer as I fought for my life and many friends were also keeping me in their prayers during this perilous time and it’s not over yet. I’ll be on antibiotics for nearly a month yet and start physical therapy next week because I’ve been unable to move the two center fingers since the incident. Several people are telling me that’s an expensive cat you have there and “get rid of it.” But he doesn’t realize he did anything wrong; how can you blame him?
It’s happened to everyone, you get a melody in your head and it replays over and over and you can’t get it out. Sometimes you just go with the flow loving and enduring the rerun in your mind. There are times you have a soothing song on the brain and other times it’s just the catchy rhythm that keeps you hanging on. Such is life.
Life is a roller coaster for most of us. There’s the highs and the lows and sometimes it goes on and on like the song stuck in your head. Most music genres have artists where their song starts out slow and builds up with each verse reaching a climax and often with an abrupt ending while others finish with the crescendo. In essence a soundtrack and a life-track run in a parallel fashion.
What’s the key to a successful song or a successful life? There’s no succinct, no right or wrong answer per se but true success can be measured by the kind and amount of influence, how you’ve made a difference in the world. One would argue that a songs success is measured by the sales and life by your celebrity status, how much wealth you’ve amassed or how well you’re known. Honestly if you don’t see it as how many lives were touched by the song or by the life you are missing the point.
Life is like a rolling stone, day after day sometimes it’s hard to distinguish one from the other but you need to stop and see what a beautiful world it is. Many see life as a long and winding road and you need to remember to hold your head up when times are tough. Keeping an eye of the tiger attitude is fine but remember to try a little tenderness for it’s kindness that wins more hearts. With the right song in your heart you can reach your dreams.